Today, you can read the second part of Lounging In Lipe by Nomadic Matt. For more pictures from Thailand and the rest of the world, take a look at Matt’s Travel Photos.

TEXT & PHOTO: Matthew Kepnes
Paradise Found
We spent our days on the beach and our nights at the bar. I’d lost my flip flops and, in true island spirit, was going barefoot. Life was simple.
Most of the foreigners on the island had come years ago and, captured by this place, returned every season. There was Kelvin the crazy Welshman, Fred the Frenchman, Julie the Swiss girl who seemed to speak every language, and Chris the young, lazy Canadian backpacker.
My plan was to spend four days there before going back to the mainland. I didn’t leave until three weeks later. Ko Lipe had captured me and I was its willing prisoner. I had found my beach. We explored the island everyday- crisscrossing the interior, exploring the town, eating at all the restaurants, and swimming at all the beaches. We left no corner of the island unturned.
We set out to explore the little island near my bungalow. During low tide you could walk to it- as long as you avoided the urchins! During high tide, you could leisurely swim there, letting the current push you. On the opposite side of the island, the shelf dropped off deep and the current kicked in. There was a lot of fish swimming around showing all the colors of the rainbow. Neon blues and pinks darted around us. It was beautiful. We looked continuously for reef sharks but, sadly, we never saw any.
Days passed. I got tanner. My backgammon game improved. We all bonded at the bar each night playing football, jamming to music, and laying out under the stars. We celebrated birthdays and festivals and just being there. It was like the beach and I imagined this was what Thailand was like before mass tourism hit the country.
The locals of the island were native sea gypsies and historically nomadic fishermen but with increased tourism to the island were slowly exchanging fishing poles for bars and restaurants. Being there long term allowed me to get to know them really well. There was the owner of the sandwich shops, Mai, who I visited everyday. She always had my food ready (I’m a creature of habit) and always taught me Thai. Her family and I conversed over breakfast or lunch. There was also the local soup shop owner, who didn’t speak any English but was always happy to see us come in and always had a smile on his face. The locals took time out to ask us about our day and always waved and smiled as we went by.

But paradise slowly faded as we all began to trickle off the island though. Nothing perfect last forever. First the German couple left, then my friend, followed by Chris, and then finally me. Paul and Jane stayed longer but my visa was expiring and it was time to go.
After Christmas, I reluctantly boarded the ferry back to the mainland; sadden by the fact I’d have to wear footwear again. I never have made it back there. Maybe it’s a good thing. Ko Lipe was my utopia. Any return trip might ruin the dream in my head. Somewhere out there there’s another Lipe waiting to be discovered.




























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July 6, 2008 at
Taylor Davidson
Fantastically put, Matt. I find that not only does “paradise not last”, but that once we get used to Paradise, we compensate, and forget that we’re even in Paradise (although it doesn’t sound to me like you fell into that trap, and in fact are well aware of how good it was).
Perhaps there is a bit of us that simply craves change. Perhaps even if we know that this is as good as it gets, we still want to pursue more.
As you put it, going back would be difficult. It would be almost impossible to recreate the experience. Is it even worth it to try?
I hiked the West Highland Way in Scotland last year, and everything about the trip (friends, weather, experiences, etc.) were so perfect, I don’t think I even want to try to re-create it. I don’t think I can ever do it again; perhaps I’m scared of tarnishing my memories…
July 7, 2008 at
Erica Johansson
I also believe we get used to paradise, just as we get used to everything else. For example, my absolute dream travel destination is Bora Bora. Long white sand beaches, clear blue warm water, a truly peaceful environment, no crowds. I can’t imagine anything more blissful. But even though I’m sure I would love it there, if I’d spend several months on the island, I think I’d eventually feel less and less impressed by the beauty of the place, get used to it, and start longing somewhere else. I think everyone more or less craves change; we want more, different, and better things or experiences.
As for recreating trips, I believe some of them are meant to happen again (like Paris or New York), some are not. It sounds like your West Highland hike is supposed to be just a memory. I once returned to this place called Hovs Hallar in Sweden, where I had gone with my family a few times from the age of 2-14, but the place was much less perfect than I remembered it. I almost even regretted I had gone back. As you write, some experiences are virtually impossible to recreate, no matter how much we want to. So rather than trying to recreate memories, it’s better to look for new ones.
If we travellers do wish to remember a certain trip, that’s what photos and travel journals are for!
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July 8, 2008 at
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I remember, the trip to Shimla, it was nothing less then a paradise trip as the climate was -4 Deg cel during September and the mornings and the evenings were so chilling that you can not live without large shot of drinks and as soon as you sipp it you went into the dreamland coz of the chilling nights and all… i have no words to describe that trip I stayed there for 3 nights only even thou it was awesome…
July 8, 2008 at
Doru
Staying long in only one place makes paradise seems obsolete. The wish to discover new places pushes the traveler to brand new paradises!
July 8, 2008 at
Erica Johansson
Doru, I completely agree.
Many travelers are always on the lookout for new paradises, some even spend their whole life on the road searching for fascinating destinations. Andy of Hobo Traveler is one of them. Here’s the link to his blog http://www.hobotraveler.com/blogger.html
July 10, 2008 at
Taylor Davidson
Re: remembering & recreating paradise, well put Erica. I suppose paradise is not meant to be forever, almost by definition…
July 13, 2008 at
Paul and Jane
We’re the couple that Matt met on the boat en route to Lipe and having just chatted to him on MSN, felt the urge to read up on some nostalgia. Just seeing the photos and reading his article brought the fabulous memories flooding back.
We’re now in New Zealand as planned and reside here permanently. Equally beautiful in its own way.
Lipe will hold a place in our hearts forever, in fact we intend to take our honeymoon there. We’re not out to re-create the utopia we found, though I (Paul) did lose a flip flop and would like to see if its been handed in
and I miss the amazing Rotee Kluay (banana pancakes)
Cheers Matt for re sparking the great memories!!!
July 13, 2008 at
Erica Johansson
Paul and Jane,
I hope you’ll have wonderful honeymoon on Lipe!
Thanks for stopping by.